Just got this e-mail! Had to post it here! Thats a beautiful story.
And to comment the email: Yeah, Im aware my blog is a bit superficial! :) But it's all about love, so... :)
"I'm a black girl, aged 23 and live in South Africa. Over the years I never dreamed that I would ever find white men attractive. I'd never considered myself racist but I'd made a conscious decision to date only black men, simply because I believed I didn't find white men attractive. So, it was really awkward for me when a white guy from my class asked me out. I mean, I didn't want to be rude but I really wished he could just leave me alone. Anyways, my discomfort lasted for about 3 days. Two weeks later I kissed him and I'm sooooooooo glad I did. We're engaged and getting married a week from now but it is not easy. South Africa has come a long way since apartheid and racist laws but people still stare at us. Worse still, is the fact that some of the black people I know are now convinced that I'm the so-called "coconut" (white person in a black person's skin). It's awful having to justify loving another human being just because he's got a skin colour different to yours.
I don't really understand your reason for what you're doing and to be honest, I do feel like it's a bit superficial at times, but the truth is, I looked for and found *blackisbeautiful* when I was confused and trying to understand how I could suddenly have feelings for a white boy. Somehow, you made me understand that it was ok to love him. I want to say thank you for
whatever you're doing because I truly am happy with him."
33 comments:
maybe it's time to change the blog name from blackisbeautiful to interracialisbeautiful, since 'going interracial' is the dominant theme here. Or how about whitebwoylustingoverblackwoman for a chance at interracial love? Yea, that one hits the mark.
I guess you havent read anything on this blog. One of the first things said on this blog is: "THOUGHTS OF A WHITE B'WOY"... and Im tired of getting into fight over something so stupid...
white bwoy you must be confused. How does black is beautiful work out to being all things interracial? a black person and a biracial person are two different things. You think a white man and a black woman together equals black is beautiful? Better you say interracial is beautiful. Can you imagine a black man and white woman walking hand-in-hand talking about white is beautiful? Then what is the white woman doing with a black man, if she thinks white is beautiful? And likewise, what is a black woman doing with a white man if she thinks black is beautiful? It makes no sense. lol.
Once again, I tell you, read the byline of this blog: THOUGHTS OF A WHITE B'WOY.. That means... this blog is my perspective of things... not yours... if you need to talk about it... start your own blog.. and I promise you.. you can name it whatever you want.. I want interupt you... Please do that... and write about your stuff there instead... cuz this is boring me...
yes, this is your perspective. So it is your perspective that black is beautiful when the black man is replaced by the white man? Or you're just riding on the black is beautiful slogan to sell your interracial propaganda?
Aha.. so this is your new blog!? Kool! Nice for you to have your own space to write! Looks a lot like mine, but I wont disturb you.
Well said,Andrea s let that hater know that this aint his/her blog.this is ur blog so u can say what u want on it. Haterz gotta learn to deal with it.
Anonymous, you are a first class fool. Get off Andreas' blog and stop wasting his time and his readers' time. Start your own blog, as Andreas suggested. Or are you afraid you really have nothing worthwhile to say and no-one will read your blog, so you're trying to piggy-back off Andreas' blog? Get your own, if you have any cajones.
Racist cowards who have a problem with white men admiring black women, but who don't even have the guts to just come out and say so directly even while sitting anonymously behind a computer. Nothing amuses me more.
Jesus, I've never heard such a load of garbage! In his crazy logic what Anonymous is in effect saying, is that if you're confident within yourself and you believe that you are beautiful, you shouldn't see beauty in another person - All the people who believe that they're beautiful should just date themselves then! I can just imagine being married to another me lol. Your logic is insane, Anonymous.
The rest of you, please be warned that the danger in trying to respond to and make sense of such crazy comments is that you run the risk of sounding crazy. yourself. The observer might have trouble identifying the looney. I suggest you all ignore this fool. Some people will say anything to justify their racism.
The B'woy has a thing for black beauty. Hell, he might even have a thing for interracial beauty - bottom line, it's HIS blog. Just go start your own anti-blackbeauty blog where you can say what you like. These racist innuendos are boring.
Jesus, I've never heard such a load of garbage! In his crazy logic what Anonymous is in effect saying, is that if you're confident within yourself and you believe that you are beautiful, you shouldn't see beauty in another person - All the people who believe that they're beautiful should just date themselves then! I can just imagine being married to another me lol. Your logic is insane, Anonymous.
The rest of you, please be warned that the danger in trying to respond to and make sense of such crazy comments is that you run the risk of sounding crazy. yourself. The observer might have trouble identifying the looney. I suggest you all ignore this fool. Some people will say anything to justify their racism.
The B'woy has a thing for black beauty. Hell, he might even have a thing for interracial beauty - bottom line, it's HIS blog. Just go start your own anti-blackbeauty blog where you can say what you like. These racist innuendos are boring.
The white bwoy made his comments public on a blog with a comment feature for the public to jump right and in and say what they want. Problem is, if you question the garbage he's posting it's a problem to him and his ass kissers.
@Gene
"Jesus, I've never heard such a load of garbage! In his crazy logic what Anonymous is in effect saying, is that if you're confident within yourself and you believe that you are beautiful, you shouldn't see beauty in another person - All the people who believe that they're beautiful should just date themselves then! I can just imagine being married to another me lol. Your logic is insane, Anonymous."
The logic is not insane. White bwoy is pushing an interracial romance agenda. So why not label his postings as 'interracial is beautiful' instead of 'black is beautiful'? That's the question.
One of his last postings has a pic that says 'black is beautiful presents a beautiful couple' but the couple is not black, it's interracial. That's not a figment of my imagination, that's a fact.
All you fools jumping around talking about RACIST, this blog is all about race and what the white bwoy think is beautiful based on RACIAL features. He himself have shunned all white women, simply because of outward racial features. So who you calling racist?
anon 1:30 Why does the white bwoy opinion and this blog concern you so much? Tell mama, why you so mad and angry? Dont you like interracial couples? Is that your problem, baby? LOL
"One of his last postings has a pic that says 'black is beautiful presents a beautiful couple' but the couple is not black, it's interracial. That's not a figment of my imagination, that's a fact.""
He meant the blog "blackisbeautiful" is presenting this couple. They dont have to be both black. Got it??? If the woman is black thats good enough LOL Got that too???
White bwoy is pushing an interracial romance agenda.
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That's right anon at 1:2pm. It's a new form of anti-black man propaganda sponsored by the feminazi slave trader who sold us from africa. This form of black man hating is subtle and more effective. Not like the hood-wearing and cross burning lynch mob. This time it's been done subtly in the name of black is beautiful. But the 'black family' is beautiful when it's headed by a white man! We expose that shit.
"It's a new form of anti-black man propaganda "
This website isn't about black men. It's about black women, and the white men who adore them.
And apparently this fact, in itself, is the real "problem" to these racist egotists, who are opposing interracial love (in this case between white men and black women) for their own self-interests. All the rest they're raving on about is just a pile of bullshit to try to justify and rationalize their selfishness, hatred and egotism. But you know:
"Hate doesn't conquer hate, only love can." -- Martin Luther King
These words of wisdom explain exactly why the Swedish white boi had several admirers among black women, and you guys probably have none. Because he's investing his time and energy in the spreading of love, and not hate.
Anon 8:01 AM: VERY WELL SAID!!! :)
There is no hate on this blog. And when people are talking about "anti-black man propaganda" - thats just bullsh!t... there is NO way I ever ever said anything hateful against black men. As a matter of fact, many of my black male friends here are enjoying my blog...
To silly black man:
If this is a new form of "antiblack man" What of the BM/WW constant parings?? Anti black women? Where was your venom at that time? Go scream at bM who like pairing themselves and putting racially ambiguous women in their slut videos and movies, simply because of white skin.
Go chant to them. Wave your black nationalist red,black 'n' green the "ebil-white- man- gotta- plan- thinking" some where other than here. Other than that take a seat.
I think you need to take your insecurities elsewhere.
....And go watch "300" while your at it, maybe you'll learn how to be a man and DEFEND women.
One thing I love about white men is that they DO protect their interests unlike many black men.
Almost twenty years ago, I used to have a BM "friend" who always talked about his many WF conquests. This didn't bother me at all, as I, a WM who grew up around Black people, preferred BW. One day, while walking with this "friend" at Baltimore's Inner Harbor, he sighted a WM with a BF. There was no indication that they were anything other than friends or even coworkers. Upon seeing them, he shouted "She got white boy fever!!" They didn't react, but I'm sure they heard. I was dismayed by this, thinking his propensity for bedding WF made him tolerant. Not so. Angered and saddened by this, I promptly walked away from him and never talked to him again. Later, I figured it out. Seeing a WM-BF pairing did nothing but undercut his probable "mandingo" self-image and brought out his true nature. Such are many of the hateful BM who comment here. No doubt, they have bedded many WF, but get upset at seeing "their" women go with the hated white "boy". This behavior by my "friend" starkly revealed his bigotry. I'm sure he looked down on WM as inferior, me included. He subscribed to the "ultimate male=BM, ultimate female=WF" dichotomy. This didn't discourage me at all, and twenty years later, I'm married to a lovely Black woman.
On a related note, I've been asked why I prefer Black woman countless times. The way I'd answer it is, "what is your favorite color?" Answer,(for example)"Red." My response, "why red?" They say, " I don't know, I just like red". Me:"Well, there's your answer"
Let haters hate. I just wish these BM would just say the obvious: "I hate, hate, hate White Men" (well, they usually call us "boys"). I'd have a little (ver little) more respect for them.
Excellent blog. You have excellent taste. Like me, the haters just made dig in my heels all the more. Keep it up, bro.
Excellent blog! very interesting stories. I'm a 25 year old female and still hoping to meet my white prince. I'm just soooo attracted to white guys it's not funny. I like the casual look of theirs on the weekends. Shorts, slops, tshirts and shades! I would like to meet someone young (even young at heart is welcome). E-mail me on darkiecherry@gmail.com
Sean, You have just solved the riddle.
Some black men resent, hate and are jealous of white men.
It is all about the hatred they have for white men and nothing else.
And some of them want the entire world to hate white men.
Black men are also competing with white men.
Black men are not really interested in uplifting the black race.
Some of these same black men are proud to bed white women and also to see other black men with non-black women.
They really have a bone to pick with white men.
This is why whenever I see black women who are anti white men I just laugh at them, because the black man is not anti- non-black women.
Women need to learn that our fight is against policies and not against any racialor ethnic group. Let the men remain in those foolish battles.
Andreas, I am a very attractive young black girl who gets approached by men of different races all the time, and of all the men I could choose, I choose white man - I am in love with one now in fact. He's no slouch himself, just Saturday we were out and a blonde female bartender bought him a drink (lol). We choose each other every day. What you're doing is shining a light on couples like us, and uplifting women like me, and that is an act of Love, and I thank you for that. Your website truly IS beautiful.
^^ Trash, straight outta the dumpster. Complete with odor.
To be honest, my man of preference is Asian - I think Asian men ar so damned HOT!!!! My boyfriend is Chinese and everytime I even look at his picture, I melt inside! However, if Sistahs like their meat white, that's their business. I love your blog Andreas, I only wish these stupid, worthless black men would stay off! If they want to show some indignation, go to the ghetto and tell their "brothers" to stop gang banging and shooting up their neighborhoods and beating up their "baby Mamas" instead of leaving useless comments on some white boy's blog! WHY DO THEY KEEP COMING HERE???? lol
Andreas this is a beautiful story thanks for sharing and keep up the excellent work on your blog :)It about time that teh world becaome color blind
nice post. thought provoking
'black femenazi who sold *us* into slavery??' who's *us*? i get we're not operating from a place of respect for historical accuracy here, but can i just point out that there were black women slaves, too??
andreas, must feel so good to get emails like that. and love the layout change.
I don't have a problem if a bw wants to date a wm. As a black female I do not appreciate the comments of some of the black males on here. These very same men probably have wm as wives or girlfriends.
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